The lack of security behind the blame is their own

There is also a part of the man, he thinks his girlfriend a little makeup, dress up a little, is not good, is trying to go behind their backs to do something bad, not to mention is wearing a special sexy it, “100% is to seduce other men”!

This accountability to each other’s mindset, precisely reveals that the man is in a long-term state of insecurity.

In general, this type of male generally has the following commonalities: (universal phenomenon summary, not for any one man, and not in criticism of any one man, do not be irritated by the number into the seat)

1 hard value is relatively poor, such as physical appearance, education, financial ability, family conditions, social status, etc.;

2. relatively little experience in love;

3. relatively little contact time with the opposite sex;

4. almost no hobbies, personal life is relatively single and boring;

5. the family of origin is not particularly harmonious, and the relationship with parents is relatively poor, or relatively weak affection.

This type of person is actually not only for their girlfriend, from the overall point of view, his trust in the society and the world is relatively low, so when he encounters a behavior or phenomenon that he does not understand or does not agree with, his first reaction is always to doubt and speculate.

And this suspicion is mostly negative, because he feels uneasy well, so he needs to communicate through some negative information to show his unease, and the implementation of intimate relationships, this negative information is converted to the partner’s accusations and even insults.

So if you are a man with this idea, I suggest that you do not consider whether you are too lenient, I suggest that you first go to yourself to do a little psychological guidance, or you can recall their previous life of origin family.

There is no good or bad, right or wrong meaning here, very few people’s original family is perfect, incomparable harmony, everyone’s original family will be more or less certain problems, as long as you can find these problems to solve these problems, you can go to build an ideal intimate relationship belonging to you.

Because I can tell you clearly, you are now because your girlfriend does not dress conservatively enough to suspect that she is something, this insecurity has seriously affected your intimacy, you may not be aware of yourself, or your partner’s dissatisfaction with you has not yet broken out, if you can not be the first time to make up and eliminate their own this uneasiness, your intimacy are behind must also break out more, greater conflict.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>